An Anchor and a Star

Every Friday is cause for celebration but especially this one, as we gather to remember one of our own and her early passing. Annie had no lingering illness or outward signs that death was near. She was fine on Easter weekend and dead by Wednesday afternoon.

I know tears will flow today as many try to fill the hole where Annie stood. The better the person, the deeper the grief. And the abruptness of her passing left her community of family in friends in utter disbelief.

A lot have mentioned her smile that lit up the room or the gentle way she laughed at the crazy antics going on around her. She included everyone in the conversation and made newcomers feel welcome. She was an anchor and a star. What I remember most is her consistent, authentic kindness even when there was bickering and dissent in the group.  She was Switzerland, baby!

A lot of people feign generosity of spirit because society values them, but Annie was the Real Deal. She built bridges and skyscrapers with the relationships she fostered. She changed people's lives with her encouragement.  She loved people through rough times and that helped her stand tall during her own.

How Annie managed to hang on to those loving, childlike, open-hearted qualities in a world like ours is a miracle. But we are grateful she did. Annie lived a quiet but large life to those who knew her. Friday was her favorite day, and so tonight in the Sunset we will celebrate all that she was and the fine example we can take forward into our lives.